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Archive for July 2006

The Training Decision

Friday, July 28th, 2006

You’ve decided that life coaching is it…it matches your mission…it is your vision.  You are called to be a Christian life coach.  You’re ready to get started and you want to dive in.  Likely, your first question is, “what about training?”

If you’ve done any research at all, you know there are varying opinions on coach training and even specifically Christian life coach training. 

  • You know that there are currently no US states that require licensing for life coaches – so currently there are no “licensing requirements” to help inform your decision. 

  • You know that there are accredited programs and non-accredited. 

  • You know that there are quite a few secular coach training programs and a growing number of Christian programs. 

  • Hopefully, you know that anyone can create a training program and offer you a “certified” title – highlighting the need to consider what “certified” title you want to receive and from whom. 

There are several factors to think through when choosing training.  I’ll discuss the main ones in blog entries next week.  However, in the meantime, look at your vision.  This is an excellent example of why knowing your vision is so significant when making decisions.

Take a look at your vision (which…have I said it enough already…you have written down) and ask what will get you there.  Will you be coaching in business or ministry?  Will you be coaching only Christians?  Will you be working in a church or corporate environment?  Will you have your own coaching business five or ten years from now?
 

The decision to go with ICF accredited training vs. non-accredited or secular training vs. Christian, for example, is unique to your personal vision.  So hold your vision out in front of you and come back to my blog next week for information that will help you make your coach training decision.

Is it really life coaching?

Monday, July 24th, 2006

So you’ve identified your mission…your vision.  Hopefully that’s based on your sense of unique purpose and passion.  It’s all about who you are uniquely created to be. 

And you’re considering…coaching.  Is it really life coaching?  Is becoming a life coach part of the fulfillment of your true calling?

Take a look at your passions and values. 

If you are passionate about helping others heal and resolve personal issues, then maybe it’s not coaching.  Maybe it’s counseling or therapy.

If you love analyzing problems in your field of expertise, summarizing your analysis and making recommendations, then maybe it’s consulting.

If you deeply desire to help people identify the presence of God in their lives, then maybe it’s spiritual direction.

Have you looked at the career and ministry options that are similar to coaching and asked yourself which is truly the best match for your mission?

For help as you consider this, go to www.christiancoachingresources.com to sign in and receive (free) The Life Coaching Comparison Tool.  In addition to giving a definition of Christian life coaching, this tool clarifies basic distinctions between coaching and counseling, consulting, spiritual direction, mentoring, discipleship and pastoral care. 

Why would you start with identifying mission and vision?  Why not just “dive in” and “go for it?” 

Well…because it’s helpful to know where you’re going in order to get there.  I love this quote by Yogi Berra, American baseball player:

“If you don’t know where you’re going, you might wind up someplace.”

Establishing a new career – establishing a new business – is not easy.  In your dark hours (and you know they’ll come) it helps to know where you’re going and why.  In those hours you can refer back to your calling – your purpose – the mission and vision statements you’ve written down – to gain the motivation and courage to press on. 

Would you like to go somewhere intentionally?  Then identify your mission and vision.  Ask God to show you the vision of where to go.  Then (have I said it enough already)…write that down.    

What is your calling?

Monday, July 17th, 2006

This week I’ll write to those of you making the decision to become a coach.  You’re toying with a career change.  You wonder whether you should sign up for a training course.

It’s most important to know your calling.  Calling is sometimes referred to as “mission” and sometimes as “vision.”  Just when you think you’ve got the working definition of those terms down, you will have to think again.  “Mission” and “vision” are addressed across a variety of authoritative settings with definitions that are sometimes opposite and sometimes interchangeable adding up to sometimes confusing.  What school of thought you’re from or what training you’ve taken or what book you’ve read determines how you use the terms. 

I’m inclined to say that your calling is your mission.  That is, “calling” or “mission” is what you’re going to do.  Typically it’s a broad statement – contained in a sentence (or so) – that includes references to the purpose or significance of your pursuit.  Statements of vision are longer and more detailed and talk about how things will look when your mission is accomplished.

Whatever you call it, identifying your purpose is the first step.  What are you called to?  What does God have for you to do?  What will it look like when you are living your calling?  Before deciding to change your career or invest time and money into training, answer these questions.

Start by writing down compelling statements that clearly identify your mission and vision.  If you are stymied, contact me to arrange coaching for identifying your mission and vision.  Ask me about upcoming coaching groups on the topic.  Ask me about my special rates on one-on-one coaching available through www.christiancoachingresources.com for a limited time. 

Come back for more on this topic in tomorrow’s post.